Saturday, August 13, 2011

Wii do!

Yes my title is a bit silly.  Wii do..... So what does it mean?  It all starts back at a work Christmas Party in 2009.  Ashley Conk attended her dads work party and while she was there she met Matt Gross who worked with her dad.  I don't know all the details but I do know they met playing Wii!  I know that Ashley was first attracted attracted to Matt's eyes.  And Matt was first attracted to her smile.  So that is where it all started during a game of Wii.  Who would have thought?
   Ashley and Matt complement each other in a very unique special way.   They bring out the best in each other.  Matt encourages Ashley in a way that seems to empower her.  He makes she gleam and he also shows her how to step out of her comfort zone.  Ashley  loves on Matt, supports him and is there for him in a way that I feel lifts Matt up.  She also always laughs at his jokes! 
   Their wedding was amazing.  Everything went so smoothly, they were both surrounded by all their family and friends and the day couldn't have been better.  Here are a few more pics from their wedding day at the Flower Farm in Loomis Ca.  http://www.flowerfarminn.com/
Congrats Mr & Mrs Gross
Cake created by Kathy Hunter

Sweet moment

Pretty ladies

There is that smile!

Wii Do!



They were gleaming

Sweet




Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Miracles do Happen

So this past weekend I spent it alone with my entire Morton side of the family.   My dad was entered into the Reedley College Hall of Fame for Football.  This was the start of his football career.   I definitely was not alone.  I drove down to Reedley 20 miles South of Fresno with my dad, mom, baby brother and baby sister.  Aram and the kids stayed home.  We were all crammed into a 5 seater car and I sat dead center in the middle the whole time.   I don't even remember the last time I spent this amount of time with them, and I felt like a little kids again.   We talked, teased and even fought.  Normal stuff for the Morton family.   We also brought up very hard times from the past and it was amazing to me to see the healing that has occurred.  It was a confirmation this weekend that God has answered my prayer.  The prayer I wrote down on a index paper 6 years ago!  The one that said God, I beg that you will heal my family each and every one of them especially my parents.  I see that He has answered that prayer with my parents.  They lost everything, their home, belongings, life as they always knew it and it was in those deep dark moments of letting go they fell in love with each other and my entire childhood I never saw them love each other.   My dad has been sober for almost 7years and it was like a celebration of life, sobriety and I was overwhelmed of Gods peace reminding me I am exactly where He wants me to be.
So we drove down together and I kept quite most of the time looking at all of them thinking about our childhood and thinking of the reality that they are my blood, my family and how much I truly love them.  I see myself in each and every one of them.   My baby brother who has always been so little to me is now 15 and 2 inches taller than me.  I also realized that Aram and I impacted my little sister during the short time she lived with us.
We had a great time seeing cousins, 2nd & 3rd cousins, aunts & uncles and a great uncle & aunt.  What I took from this weekend was Joy!  Sweet Joy & Peace!  I found myself stuck in the present and taking in all the love, peace and joy being in the present brings.  I looked at my dad and saw my hero, the hero I saw in him when I was young.  A strong man full of love, peace and security.  He gets all that from God.  I am so struck by Gods love this weekend and I got a reminder that Miracles do happen, prayers are heard and it just may not turn out the way you think it should. 
And we are so grateful for uncle Bill for being so generous!!  
Here are some pics I took:
All suited up

This is the miracle & see the love

I met my cousins son for the first time he is now 10!! Pure Joy!

My dads notes!  I think that is 45 font?

History where it all began

Wonderful speech made most people cry.

My dad with his old coaches, they believed in him and encouraged him.

My dad with his sisters and brother

Our family... see my baby brother is right next to me and taller than me and I am 5'10"

My dad and his best man & old college roommate

My cousin Brett & dad, Brett was a football player as well.